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Check out this 2003 article in Touchstone titled “The Truth About Men & Church.” It is about the role of fathers in the transmission of faith. Here is an excerpt:

“In short, if a father does not go to church, no matter how faithful his wife’s devotions, only one child in 50 will become a regular worshipper. If a father does go regularly, regardless of the practice of the mother, between two-thirds and three-quarters of their children will become churchgoers (regular and irregular). If a father goes but irregularly to church, regardless of his wife’s devotion, between a half and two-thirds of their offspring will find themselves coming to church regularly or occasionally.

A non-practicing mother with a regular father will see a minimum of two-thirds of her children ending up at church. In contrast, a non-practicing father with a regular mother will see two-thirds of his children never darken the church door. If his wife is similarly negligent that figure rises to 80 percent!”

"....You cannot feminize the church and keep the men, and you cannot keep the children if you do not keep the men."

I think our example as men doing what is right while facing the “realities” of the world is the most powerful weapon we have in safeguarding the faith of our children. As a church, the battle is clear - to ensure our future, we must engage fathers.

Btw, if your a Catholic dad, consider joining Catholic Dads.

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4 Comments:

Interesting... and not very encouraging for me as a single mother. I pray my children will be the exception... or that Damion's influence will help out a bit.

I'm not sure if the results speak to single parents. I remember when a good friend of mine had her first child before getting married. I remember when she asked me to be the "male role model" for the kids. I think having a male role model is important.

That said, the only thing any of us can do is our best with the hand we've got - that and pray. Definitely pray, and let God handle the rest.

My point is primarily for the dads who coast and let the moms do all the work. Bad idea.

So true... It's all in God's hands! By the way, I forgot to mention that I LOVE that photo you posted...

Have a blessed day!

What very interesting statistics. Yet another reason for me to be thankful that my husband and I have the same religion and we both are active!!

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